First of all, if you are not associating with the other members, what are doing on IBO?
I try and associate with every new member that joins IBO. It's really important to associate with as many members as you can at IBOtoolbox because they are going to help you promote your business and you by engaging in IBOspirit. Think about it, you can't possibly join everyone's business opportunity but you can engage in IBOspirit by sharing your associates' information on your social networks, giving them more exposure and helping them get noticed. If you do this, they in turn will reciprocate and do the same for you!
I recommend setting a goal to associate with at least 10 new members per day. Once they accept your invite, send them a message through IBO message system with helpful information about IBO such as where they can get training and the webinars. We want to make sure that everyone gets trained on how to use all the tools and IBO websites, if they don't they will leave and that does none of us any bit of good. In my message I have a link to a video I recorded welcoming them to IBO.
When you see your associates on the wall, you can like, comment and share their wall posts to show support as well as like, comment and share their press releases and videos. This is what IBOspirit is all about and engaging in IBOspirit is a major traffic generator for IBOtoolbox and helps everyone succeed!